Tears from heaven

And I knew the second you left this place, my heart, my life would never be the same. I'm missing you. I'm always missing you!! 

This Time of Year

This time of the year brings me so much sadness. It's been four years ago since I began a tearful goodbye to the love of my life, my sweet Papa Bud.

My entire world changed that summer. The grief of losing someone I needed so much rocked me to my very core. I experienced sadness and loss like I had never imagined. I knew it was going to be bad. And it still is on some days. 

I still have the lip balm I used on his dry, cracked lips in his hospital room. The sponge we used to wet his mouth. These small items brought him comfort. I'm sure it also comforted him to see us around his bed. 

Every now and then I watch that show on TLC "Long Island Medium" and I don't know if I believe in that it not. My faith tells me to be wary of things like that but a part of me wonders what would Papa tell me if he could. Would he be proud of me? Am I still his #1? Does he know how much of a difference he made in my life?

Four years ago Papa's health rapidly began declining mid July. Within a few weeks he would be gone. Seeing him sick had become so hard. His last fee years had been difficult. He was in congenital heart failure and it had robbed him of so many of his joys. I knew in my heart that this was going to be our last summer together. So, I made a point to visit him more. During the kids VBS that summer, I stayed with him each night. And after that I came over more to just talk to him. It doesn't erase my guilt of all the times before I had avoided seeing him because it was so hard seeing him struggle to walk, being short of breath. I have to live with that guilt now. 

The last two weeks of July and early August will always be the worst memories of my life. I will never escape the pain and misery I feel when the weather gets hot and balmy. Humid. Even the air smells the same as it did during those weeks. And I hate it. 

He loved summer though. He loved hot, sunny days. He loved his garden and tomatoes. He loves his flowers. He didn't like the cold the way I did so its a little ironic he passed away on one of the hottest days of the year. 

Lord how I miss him. 

Vintage Christmas Browsing

This is my favorite time of year for collecting vintage Christmas decor. Yard sales are rich with vintage Christmas decor and collectibles as is eBay. Most people are thinking about their summer plans, not Santa Claus so generally prices stay lower on auctions than what you would see in the fall. 

Here are a few beauties on my wish list:

Vintage honeycomb mercury glass garland. How gorgeous would this look on a mantle?

Vintage icicles. I love this box too. Super cute. 

Mercury glass anything and especially garland in these colors. Want. 

Vintage bottle brush tree with mercury ornaments. Everything about this little tree makes me happy. It has glitter, pink and mercury glass. Perfection!

I can honestly say I could creep on eBay for hours looking for goodies! 

My Busy Spring

Spring has been a busy time for us! I have really been swamped and hate that I haven't kept up my blog. Karsen continues to grow and is 2.5 years old already! Tate is busy with spring baseball. Ashton is finishing up her 4th grade year. Justin is graduating in a few weeks. Jonathan just completed his first year of college. It's so hard watching your babies grow up. Part of you wants to hold onto them forever while the other part is proud to see them grow. Here are some pics of our spring:

Easter

Karsen at the dentist

Princess party at the park!

Playing on a warm sunny day.

Baby robins on our porch!

Justin's graduation party!

Playing outside.

Baby bird flies away!

Playing at mawmaws house

Spring....or is it?

Spring arrived. Or so the calendar said. For us here in West Virginia, we were still dealing with snow showers until this week.

And with Easter falling so close to St Patrick's Day, I didn't even decorate! My mom and brother came down the weekend before Easter for a quick visit. That was nice. I miss my family so much!

I have been staying busy with getting Justin ready to graduate in a few months. My poor blog has suffered. 

Karsen is such a cutie as always. Learning new words and sayings. She keeps us on our toes. She misses Jonathan when he is in college. And she is always happy when he is home and wants him to play "choo choo" with her. She wasn't even afraid of the Easter Bunny this year!

It is our second official Easter in West Virginia but for the most part, we have spent every Easter here in West VA with the exception of a just a few. It was always a tradition to be here. Church, then brunch at the Marriott or Embassy Suites in downtown Charleston. PawPaw loved to see his granddaughters dressed up! He loved having the whole family together. The entire Easter weekend was full of Easter egg hunts and meals and family fun. 

We miss him most at holidays because he really enjoyed them. And he would have really loved seeing Karsen all dressed up in her poufy dress on Sunday. She loved church. They did a musical and it was really nice. She was worried about Jesus and was so happy when He arose from the tomb. She almost made it thru the entire service before she got restless and we had to wait in the lobby. She still will not let me put her in the toddler room. 

For Easter brunch this year, we ate at the golf club that John worked at when he was in High School. It was nice and the wait wasn't as long as the Marriott. Ashton enjoyed the egg buffet. She ate at least 6 eggs. It was cold and rainy so not a lot of picture opportunities. Here is what I did manage to get:

Where Have I Been

Dearest Blog,

Forgive me. I have been MIA. It has been a truly busy season (and having a 2.5 year old that every time I sit down at the computer she goes nuts). We enjoyed a nice Thanksgiving and Christmas. We were able to visit North Carolina the week before Thanksgiving which was nice because it meant no traffic and we were able to get back in time to celebrate with our West Virginia family too. 

Christmas came and went all too suddenly. Me and the kids (minus Justin who had to work) made a quick run back to North Carolina for a two day visit after Christmas and that was nice even though it was all too fast.

And I enjoyed having Jonathan home from college for an entire month. He just went back for his second semester on Monday. He did great his first semester. He managed a 3.5 GPA, Deans list and 22 credit hours. Not bad for a bio chem major. I couldn't be more proud of him.

We had a small cancer scare in the family as my Aunt Jill was diagnosed with lung cancer in November but thankfully it was caught and treated early. We are a very close family so hearing this news was very devastating for me but it was caught early and the Dr's are hopeful she will be ok.

The holidays aren't easier without Papa Bud but I suppose I am learning to get used to them better. It helps not living there. I guess God did me a favor by moving me so quickly after he died. I need to do a better job finding time to update my blog! That can be my New Years Resolution! Happy New Year!