Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts

Thursday, June 2, 2011

A Year and Some Tears later




Last Memorial Day weekend was awful. John took the kids to West Virginia to visit over the holiday weekend while me & Jonathan (my oldest) stayed home in Virginia.

I was about 7 months along in my pregnancy and was beginning to feel the full effects of my anemia.

We didn't know as John left early that morning, that life was about to take a drastic and awful change.

Pawpaw had been battling lung cancer but had been keeping his spirits up. But at one of his last doctor appointments, he had been told that further treatment of his cancer would not be successful. A few days after this appointment, the day John left to go to Wva. Pawpaw's health took a horrible turn for the worse and he was rushed to the hospital. Over the next four weeks, Pawpaw slowly started his journey to heaven. It was devastating.

Fast forward to this year. We all made the trip home to Wva. Our nephew Ryan was celebrating his upcoming high school graduation with a luncheon.

The entire family was in town. We had a horseshoe tournament, we ate BBQ, we had a whiffle ball game, and we all visited PawPaw's grave and helped lay the cement for his Air Force plaque.



The weekend was full of smiles and laughter. A few tears were shed, but mostly laughter.

It was one of the best weekends we could remember. Pawpaw would have loved this. What a difference a year makes.


Friday, May 22, 2009

Happy Memorial Day


Happy Memorial Day Weekend.

Remember the memories of those to which this day is celebrated.

Green sods are all their monuments; and yet it tells
A nobler history than pillared piles,
Or the eternal pyramids.
~James Gates Percival


For love of country they accepted death... ~James A. Garfield

Better than honor and glory, and History's iron pen,
Was the thought of duty done and the love of his fellow-men.
~Richard Watson Gilder



Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Memorial Day Meaning


On May 30th, 1868 Memorial Day was officially established as a way to remember and pay homage to fallen Union soldiers. It was originally called Decoration Day.

It was expanded after World War I to recognize and pay tribute to all fallen soldiers.

Flags are flown at half staff, graves are adorned with flowers, and war stories are retold passed down from generation to generation.

Today, Memorial Day is recognized on the last Monday of May.

Many people feel that giving it this date so that Americans can have a three day holiday has greatly diminished the true reason the holiday was established.

I agree.

How many of us remember a fallen soldier from the news? Unless your family has been impacted, do we truly care to remember their stories or names?

Maybe I was like that too. Until I read about Spc. Justin Allan Rollins and befriended his mom, Rhonda via myspace two years ago.

Like Rhonda, I too have two sons named Jonathan and Justin. Unlike Rhonda, I have never had to fear for my child's life in a far away country, or worse to lose my child to war.

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with the family of Spc. Justin Rollins.

To read the entire saga of his last day, please click here.

Spc. Justin Rollins died on March 5, 2007 when an improvised explosive device detonated near his unit during combat operations in Iraq.

His men were assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 505th Parachute Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division, Fort Bragg, North Carolina.

Just one day prior to his death, Justin and his fellow soldiers had rescued a litter of stray puppies.

It amazed me how one can go from petting and loving on a stray puppy, to less than 24 hours later be killed in the middle of a war torn desert. But this is what war is.

It also amazed me that Justin CHOSE to go to war. He could have taken a recruiters desk job and still serve his country proudly but he would not leave his men. He did not want to send them into war without him. He was a proud soldier.

Is that true selflessness or what?

What made Justin's story even more remarkable was that his family made sure to bring home the puppy that Justin rescued.

They named the puppy, Hero.




Justin's fiancee, Brittney with Hero.


The Rollins family has been in my thoughts for the last two years. Justin's story is one that needs to be retold for generations to come.

Only in this country, the United States of America, do true heroes like Justin exist.

Justin left behind to mourn him his mother Rhonda, his father Skip, brother Jonathan and fiancee, Brittney.

An entire town has lost one of its own, an entire country has lost a hero.


Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.~John 15:13